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Sex itself but also dreaming about sex really is very inspiring. I once read that when we do succomb and you know, just have sex, there is a beautiful release, but also a loss of energy....and sometimes it is wise to wait a bit and sublime, at another, more powerful time...
Well I have had so much sex this week I haven't written anything. The two weeks before I didn't and I wrote 4 tunes...

The man/woman union is extremely powerful & creative, but so is the longing for, the yearning. I believe still, the best music is written when smitten and insanely in love, whether or not happy and answered. Just my own personal experience, I love to write, when I am in that (hypo) manic state.

I prefer to write my lyrics before sex. With that longin, crazy yearning, even though it can last YEARS (when I'm really in love with someone), before I am actually courageous enough to follow my heart and leave all ese behind...
That longin and yearning and daydreaming has been wonderful inspiration for me.

Now that I have what I want (lol) I have enough lyrics to craft from (big books of poetry) so I can finally do the music arrangements, after having sex. With some release of tension and a relaxed state of non-attachment to the goal.

Love to hear what you think and feel..
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posted on Apr 3 at 12:51 pm
I tried writing them during sex and my girlfriend left me...

Steve
posted on Apr 3 at 4:49 pm
Before is bad because you can't concentrate on anything besides what you're about to do. During is also not good because you don't wanna distract yourself and after...well after...you don't wanna do anything else (especially guys). Jesus, maybe that's why my band hasn't done anything for a while!
posted on Apr 3 at 7:09 pm
totally during.
posted on Apr 4 at 10:35 am
Sex and music intertwine, you don't say. Emotion controls everything we do, sex is just one of the more powerful results of emotion, so before, after, during, I just want some......all the time, while I'm writing, playing guitar, singing, eating, reading, typing, laughing, crying(yes I have cried), producing, driving, watching, dancing, I think you get the picture/point......
posted on Apr 5 at 10:48 am
yeah Jostel, you are absolutely truthfully right! they intertwine haha! Music IS sex as far as I'm concerned! It is the culmination of one or more human souls searching for that peakexperience and being (sub)consciuosly driven to unite in a higher dimension. Music can do that. Sex can do that. Yeah well, I have tried to write during, but mosly I forget the lyrics or I peak too hard, maybe.
posted on Apr 5 at 11:27 am
Sex itself but also dreaming about sex really is very inspiring. I once read that when we do succomb and you know, just have sex, there is a beautiful release, but also a loss of energy....and sometimes it is wise to wait a bit and sublime, at another, more powerful time...
Well I have had so much sex this week I haven't written anything. The two weeks before I didn't and I wrote 4 tunes...
posted on Apr 5 at 11:40 am
ohh I didn't know that sex and music were two different things. Such a shame that I don't drink anymore, I could have had so much fun! (cracking myself up!)
I signed up as a fan to be able to be Jostel's and other's fan, but it didn't work out because now I pop up as this one, but yeah it is me and yeah and I think I gottahev just a little more to unfreeze my brain..
posted on Apr 5 at 8:17 pm
oh writing sonsg during sex, erh whith what kind of equipment??
posted on Apr 6 at 3:28 am
I wrote a response in a blog!
posted on Apr 6 at 12:47 pm
My highly recommended listening before having SEX !!!
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